Jim,
Welcome to the Ensign Class. For racing, from bow to stern, foredeck person, jib trimmer (straddles the winch when hiking), main trimmer/tactician, skipper. Weight forward balances the boat. If you mount the hiking stick at the tip of the tiller, you want the hiking stick/tiller tip just behind your aft leg. This way you rest your steering hand on your leg for stability and can still move across when tacking.
For cruising, I like to put a cushion on the back of the cockpit, sit back there with my feet up facing forward, hiking stick for leverage in one hand and a beer in the other. I call in my 'approved solution for sailing. Your guests can all sit forward and bring you the next beer and shrimp cocktail at your request. Rank has its privileges.
Also, from here, if you are teaching a new sailor, they can sit on the opposite side and steer. You can nudge the tiller if necessary and coach them in a normal voice.
Have fun with your new boat.
Bill Murphey
Chowder, #176
Charter Manager
Fleet 63, Barnegat Bay, NJ